If you were to choose one of the objects above, on what basis will you choose?
It’s easy to choose an object. If you choose the green bottle, the red bottle & blue bottle won’t feel anything (I suppose). I can assure that they won’t hold grudges against me.
What happen if you have to choose a person? No, I’m not taking about choosing potential life partner here (please reserve you wild assumptions).
Many people has contributed some thing in my life. In every stage of my life. I am grateful for that. Very thankful, indeed. I am surrounded by great people around me (after having hard times eliminating the bad ones) more helpful hints.
I might have thousands of friends & acquaintances. I value each and every one of them. But, I think it is not my problem that you do not have affinity for each other. Or worse, dis-liking each other.
Do not ask me to choose. It would be unfair to me. Do not put me in a difficult situation.
If I adore & give compliments to Person A, it does not mean that I favor Person A much more Person B. And it does not make Person B less adequate compared to Person A. Person B might have help me or contribute in so many ways that Person A can’t.
Arrghh.. enough talking. I’m sure that Person A & Person B won’t read this entry.